There are many apps that cater to the progression of society and to put it bluntly, connect people on adult dating sites and apps who have a desire to meet up for casual encounters.
As someone who really likes to move on with life as fast as humanly possible, I appreciate these types of sex dating apps! Below you will find the best adult dating sites and hook up apps that I’ve ever tried. Each one of them has an extensive review based on my personal experiences. If you are looking to hook up for a casual encounter, this is the only list of apps you need.
The Top Adult Dating Sites for Hooking Up
Yep, these do exist. I wouldn’t be Casual Sex Calvin without these. In fact, I’d be “beating off at home Bill.” When I found these amazing adult apps, it really changed my life. Gone were the days of swinging for the fences at local bars, only to hear some lame excuse at bar time about how she had to “wake up early the next day.” I don’t have the patience to buy a woman drinks all night, chat her up, and then get her number and have her say “call me some time.” I’m more of a guy that likes to have the one night stand, and if it’s great and we get along, we can certainly meet up again and see where it takes us. Let’s be honest guys, the women have this attitude too. They are far past taking chances at the bars and clubs, wasting time and money, not to mention all the effort they put in to getting ready, when they can just as easily qualify you and get to the point by using an adult dating app or website.
Times have changed, and if you want to meet others for any type of relationship, either casual, or serious, you’ll have to start using dating apps and play the game.
Which Sex Dating Apps are Best for Adults Seeking Hook Ups?
The first thing to know about casual hooking up is that all the apps out there are not equal! There are many out there that will tell you they have a strong member base that can get you laid, but at the end of the day, they are not all on a level playing field. In fact, there are many that are flat out SCAMS. (More on that later.)
The Best Adult Dating Sites of 2021
#1: Fling
The Fling App is my new #1 spot to find casual encounters. Not a week goes by where I don’t exchange naughty messages with women looking for casual sex. A large percentage of the time, things escalate to insane levels! This member base is enormous!
This is the best hook up app, hands down!
#2: Adult Friend Finder
Adult Friend Finder is a hook up app you don’t want to open at work or around minors. AFF has been one of the best adult websites facilitating hook ups worldwide for many years, and it’s one you have to join to believe.
#3: Uberhorny
Starting your search for casual sex is as easy as ordering up an Uber, and this site models their hook up app after the popular transportation service. I’ve had a lot of success on this app and enjoy their interface, strong membership base, and solid customer support.
#4: SnapSext
There is a reason that people are calling this site “the SnapChat of Sex.” When you want it quick, easy, and fast, SnapSext delivers.
#5: Instabang
You’ve heard of Instagram, right? Well, this operates in the same fashion, although it is a lot more risque. Women come here for one reason – sex. Look for women who want to bang on this site.
Those are my top five sites for casual encounters and “meet and fuck” type relationships. There are many other worthy sites, which I’ll list below, but these are the best ones I’ve personally used and continue to use.
If you travel frequently, the good thing is that you can search these adult dating apps in any area! I like to do some pre-travel searching and that way when I arrive to my destination I have a list of horny women to talk to and potentially meet up with.
How I Rate Sex Dating Apps
Member Base
The size of the network comes into play because obviously the smaller the network, the less people are out there that potentially have an interest in you. While it’s not essentially a “numbers game,” having a solid membership base especially helps when you are located in an area that isn’t a major metropolis such as Cities like New York, Chicago, and Dallas.
An app is only as good as it’s member base!
Functionality
Most of these dating apps are made with good tech behind them, so there are very few out there that are hard to navigate. However, I always appreciate apps that make things easy to send messages, “like” someone, or even phone them through the platform.
If an app isn’t user friendly or needs an MBA in hacking to use, I’ll simply pass.
Cost
While there are many free options out there, they always have their up-sell to unlock all of the member benefits. These companies are very smart, they get you into the app and KNOW that you will like it, so just when you are into someone and want to message them, they’ll ask for a debit card. Sometimes it’ll be for a trial period, some will make you sign up monthly. As a general rule of thumb, if you like an app and are going to use it, always sign up for the full year, it’ll save you tons of money. Even if you have a bad month or two and don’t use it, new members join all the time and the costs are always in your favor to sign up for a full year. Plus, when you consider that the people who join for free may not really be into it, or even worse, in it for catfishing purposes, you really want to be a member of a paid membership platform to find serious casual encounters.
The last thing I want to do is waste money. I only use affordable dating apps.
Messaging Ease
The whole goal of these sex apps is to get people to hook up! Obviously, you’ll need to have somewhere you can start a dialogue, so sending messages with ease is high on my list of things to look for. I get right into sending risque messages to see how the women will react. If they react with something dirty or sexy, I know I’ve messaged the right person. Eight times out of ten my openers work very well and I’m on my way to finding out if we have the same goals in mind.
Believe it or not, the messaging platform is one of the most vital components of any dating app.
Final Word on Hook Up App Reviews
Taking all of these factors into consideration, I came up with a ranking of all the best hook up apps based on my own experiences using them. This took over three years of data into consideration and since I share this frequently with close friends, I figured I may as well blog about it and spread the wealth. When you sign up for hook up apps, you’ll have to install the app on your smart phone. If you don’t have one or don’t want to do that, you can join their mobile versions.
Also, just some basic disclaimers here that I always like to lay out as many people are new to the sex dating app world and they think miracles will happen right when they sign up.
#1: You must be willing to share photos publicly or privately
Nobody will meet someone without knowing what they look like, for reasons I shouldn’t have to get into, but let’s be really blunt here and say that for starters, they person may not be interested in you, and for a second reason, there is an element of safety involved. Everyone wants to know what to look out for before some stranger just tackles them and starts becoming romantic with them! Either have a public photo, revealing or non-revealing, or when you send messages to people you are interested in, be ready to share a picture of yourself, or two, or three.
#2: Use the Messaging or You Will Strike out
For men, this statement is different than with women. If you are a smoke show woman, you will get men in your DM’s very quickly. As I’d assume some great looking men who are built well will get the same, but probably not at the same level as men are more aggressive by nature, even on adult dating apps.
At the end of the day, you signed up for the dating app looking for casual sex. You MUST use it and go out and seek out partners, or your app will just sit there and collect dust while you pay membership fees. I pay membership fees at more than one of the best adult dating sites, and I use them to my full advantage. I send no less than 10 direct messages per day seeking contact with women who I’d love to meet and fuck, to be totally blunt. It works. It’s a numbers game, however.
#3: Don’t Become Disgruntled if It Takes Time
It took me 3 months to meet someone for the first time. I was about to cancel my sex dating app memberships and just go back to the bar scene. But then, on a random afternoon, I got a message from a smoking hot Argentinian woman who was recently divorced. I had messaged her three times, telling her she had a nice profile, etc, and wasn’t going to message her again as I didn’t want to seem like a stalker. I got her message randomly and felt like I won a casino jackpot.
We met up and had some of the best casual sex I’d ever had after a few drinks. I flat out asked her why she ignored my first few messages, and her reply was along the lines of that she said “she gets many messages”, and we discussed the psychology of adult dating apps, and she went on to say it’s all about “being genuine, having solid follow up, and not looking desperate.”
For whatever reason, my approach worked. I still see this woman on occasion today.
Sure, women sign up for hook up websites to look for casual encounters, but they aren’t whores. Treat them like women, with respect, and you’ll see success here. These sites are made for sexual encounters, but they aren’t an online brothel!
Use those tips and the adult dating sites will become your oyster for casual encounters.
About Calvin Riddle
Calvin Riddle created Casual Sex Calvin as a way to entertain like-minded individuals on sex topics and solve many of life's problems people are too shy to talk about. When he's not working his 9-5 importing fine wines, he enjoys watching sports and will never turn down a good debate.