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Percentage of People Who Have Had One Night Stands

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​If you are looking for facts on casual sex, you’ve come to the right place.  I made this site to help people understand sex, solve mysteries, and perhaps learn a few things about hooking up.  Today, we’ll be talking about one night stands.

One Night Stands Statistics in America

​Before you dive into the graphic, I have some stats I rounded up from some sources online.  They are pretty eye opening to me, because I didn’t think our soceity was as promiscuous as these stats are saying, but hey, I’m always horny, so I guess I help skew the numbers in one way or another.

How Many One Night Stands Does the Average Person Have?

In America, the men are rounding out at 7, while the females have 6.

In another stat that’s eye opening, more people had one night stands thanks to meeting at a bar, versus people who met on dating apps.  When I wrapped my head around it, it makes sense to me.  People who meet in bars are being very spontaneous.  When you meet on a hook up app, you are meeting someone, following up with them, exchanging messages, and getting to loosely know them prior to meeting.  This has always led me to have ongoing flings with women I’ve met on apps, versus bar hook ups which don’t normally last as long.

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What Cannabis Does To Your Sex Drive

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Since a lot of countries chose to legalize the use of marijuana, many hungry companies are selling the many advantages of using products derived from cannabis. From eye creams to skin care products, you can see a lot of products adding CBD as the ingredient. Now, marijuana has reached the sex product industry.

Say what?  If it wasn’t for an article I read on the 420 Times, I wouldn’t have been so up to speed on this matter.  I enjoy cannabis and the many things it does to me, (besides the psychoactive stuff) and I feel it’s much better for people to put into their bodies when compared to say, pharmaceuticals.  But to hear about all these sex products with cannabis is downright weird to me!

Here’s a list of popular cannabis products I’ve been hearing about.  Next time you are out their having casual sexual encounters, maybe you can think of me?

  • Marijuana Lube

When you look at the shelves of e-tailers, you can now find some new stuff, like marijuana lube. Many users claimed that this lubricant helps them achieve a long-lasting orgasm.

  • Cannabis Tampons

If you often suffer from menstrual cramps, then the cannabis tampons might be a great solution. Many users reported that the said tampons help them relieve the pain from their menstrual cycle.

  • Medical Marijuana

You know that marijuana is a great relaxant that’s why they’re often prescribed to treat anxiety, poor sex drive, or problem in reaching orgasm.

Does Marijuana Affect Your Sex Life?

Cannabis

There’s little proof that marijuana positively affects your sex life. A few testimonials and a self-reported data support the belief that marijuana improves your sex life. According to some testimonials, marijuana lube allows them to have a longer orgasm.

In a study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, results show that the people who took weed every week had more sex than those who didn’t. This self-reported data may not be entirely credible so view it with a little skepticism.

Urologist Michael Eisenberg from Stanford University also claimed that people had a different view on the use of marijuana to help with sexual problems. People used to believe that marijuana lowers the sperm count, limits your ability to reach orgasm, and gives you poor sexual activity.

The claims that marijuana should be credited with the success of the sex products may also be dubious. There are other potent ingredients included in the product. For example, marijuana lube also includes coconut oil which also offers amazing benefits.

Final Thought

To be certain of the results, you need to try the product yourself. What might not work for others might work for you. Personally, I used marijuana to calm my mind and explore endless possibilities. You may call it whatever it is, but I had great success with marijuana, especially with my sexual drive.

How to Pick up Girls at a Party

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Parties are a great event to meet and hook up with girls where conversations and a little flirting are okay. Although it’s almost similar in other social situations, there are still some little differences that you should know. Whether you’re a master at approaching girls at a party or a little inexperienced, this article will help you meet a girl at a party.

Quick ​Overview
​1. Be Confident
​2. Make Her Smile
​3. Give Enough Attention
​4. Socialize
​5. Invite Her for Some Alone Time

The Art of Approaching Women at Parties

Approaching Women at Parties

​1. Be Confident

Confidence goes a long way when it comes to any social event. When picking up girls anywhere, you need to be confident.  It doesn’t matter if it’s online, at a Hotel, in a bar, or at the grocery store.  Walk straight, wear a big smile, and keep a good posture when you approach a girl at a party. If you’re shy, mimic the behaviors of a confident man as much as you can. As what the famous quote says, “Fake it until you make it”.

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​2. Make Her Smile

Nothing beats a good sense of humor when attracting girls. Your first goal in meeting with girls is to make her smile. It’s an easy thing that uplifts her mood and leaves a strong impression to the girl you like.  It’s also a good start to make the entire conversation more relaxed.

To achieve this, make a light banter when starting a conversation. Make the conversation playful to get her interest and commence the process of attraction.

woman smiling

​3. Give Enough Attention

Showing the girl proper attention is a good hint that you’re interested in her. Don’t overdo it or you’ll come as someone creepy. Just enough attention to make the girl engaged in the conversation.

While talking to her, flirt a little and say things like “I like your hair” or “You look cool”. These simple phrases will send a signal that you like her. Don’t get overboard because too much flattery will kill the mood. Simply make small, true compliments.

give attention

​4. Socialize

Of course, it’s a party. You need to socialize with other people. If you’re done talking with one girl, leave politely and go find another girl to socialize. You don’t want to stick to one girl the whole night and come out as someone needy. Talk with other people and if you’re done expanding with your options, go back to the girl that you truly like.

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​5. Invite Her for Some Alone Time

Once you have made up your mind on who you want to spend more time after the party, invite her for a private party. Suggest going to a nearby bar or heading back to your home. Be brave to gently suggest these two options.

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How to Approach Business Women in Hotel Bars

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In most cases, we think about solitary wives, party girls, and liberated bohemians when we talk about the types of women who are usually get picked up in hotel bars. Many forget that business women also hang out in these places looking for some company. So how do you approach a businesswoman in this situation? Find out our tips below.

Why Take Your Chances on a Business Woman?

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Given the job that they do, business women can be found almost anywhere, especially in big cities. They often take business trips, and this is a great opportunity for us to meet them.

Businesswomen are easy to be spotted in the middle of the crowd. They usually look chic, take care of themselves very well, and dressed very appropriately. You should play your cards right because this type of women is usually intelligent.

Don’t Flaunt Your Money

Business women are financially independent so you can’t boast your money in front of them. They have their own money to pay their own drinks and food. To impress them, you have to step up your game.  They don’t need a sugar daddy arrangement!

You’ll be surprised that most business women are open to the idea of having a fling while on break. They found no risk in doing it since they’re far away from home. Like all other girls, they come to have fun so a little adventure wouldn’t hurt.

Getting a businesswoman to like you isn’t hard. Just be the man that they’re looking for.

Be a Gentleman

Even if businesswomen tend to look chic and elegant, they still think like any other regular women. They want a prince charming to sweep them off their feet. Stop being edgy, unconventional, and extreme which can be really off-putting. Instead, be a gentleman and respect them.

A little naughtiness is okay as long as it’s done discreetly. You need to make yourself seem like a good catch even if it’s only for a one night stand. Put your A game and you can catch any business woman you want.

Listen Very Well

Most of these businesswomen are stressed by work or family, so it’s a good idea to listen to their worries. Some married women often lived a sexless life making them more amenable to fling relationships.

The good news is you can be a lucky man once these women cut loose from their stress and pent-up sexual energy.

If all else fails, go back to swiping apps. Here is a list of the most popular swipe apps in each State.  Use that information to your advantage.

Best Cities for Tinder Hookups

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​If you are like me and enjoying swiping right until your fingers bleed, you’ll find this post interesting.  As someone who sporadically travels and truly enjoys discreet hook-ups in random cities across the USA and abroad, I am happy to present to you the list of the best cities for tinder hookups.

Which Cities Use Tinder the Most For Hookups?

The United States is a big place with many colorful, different, and vibrant people. There are regions that focus on farming, while others focus on banking.  However, let’s push aside all the lists of things people are good at for a minute and get down and dirty.  Which cities are the best for hooking up on Tinder?  Which cities are the most active on Tinder?

This list was gathered by curating a few resources, which I cite below, but like always I added my own bit of flair and spice wherever I have had personal experience.

Quick ​Overview
​#1:  New York City
​#2:  Miami
​#3:  Atlanta
​#4:  Chicago
​#5:  Washington, D.C.
​#6:  Boston
​#7:  Houston
​#8:  Minneapolis
​#9:  Dallas
​#10:  Tampa

​#1:  New York City

New York Tinder

On a recent trip to the Big Apple, I found myself stuck in traffic.  Naturally, I swiped, and I swiped, and I swiped.  I went out that night and got drunk with some friends, not remembering how much time I invested in the famous swipe app.

The result?  

I woke up with over 30 women following up with me.  They say that eight million people can’t be wrong, and well, I’m happy to report that a handful fo them were into me.  Usually a few leads will trickle in every time I swipe away, but this was like nothing I’ve ever seen.  And the cool thing is, they all know how to get around town, and what a town it is.

Facts:

New York is 40% single, and there is an overage of women.  Yes, that’s not a typo.  There are 15.9% more women than men.

​#2:  Miami

Tinder in Miami

There is a reason that rappers, musicians, and athletes make South Florida their home, and it’s not the sun, nor the lack of State income taxes.  It’s the women!  Like New York, there is a surplus, to the tune of 9.6% in Miami’s case.

Facts: 

There are four bars for every thousand people and 37% of the population is single.  Add in that you can geo-target your crowd of choice, and this place is a mecca.  Like Colombian women?  There are bars where they hang out.  Like Cubans?  Calle Ocho is stocked with them.  Want a mix of models and celebs?  Head to South Beach.  Miami has it all, including good weather and the beach.

In my experience, this market gives you the most diversity out of any market.  You can find women of all types here.  Add in the fact that Fort Lauderdale is just 15 miles North, and Palm Beach is North of that, and you have a mega market of diversity, culture, and wealth.

​#3:  Atlanta

Atlanta

Following the same trends, there is a surplus of women, 6.74 bars per thousand people, and 33.8% singleness, and the ATL comes in at #3 on my list.  If you are looking for some Southern Hospitality, head on over to the 404 and swipe.

Facts:

I haven’t actually tested the Atlanta market yet. Not for a lack of desire, I just haven’t visited since Tinder become a thing.

​#4:  Chicago

Chicago

I only have Chicago below Atlanta because of the weather.  I love Chicago, but I don’t love winter.  Mostly because there is nothing worse than taking home a woman you met in a bar with a really pretty face and watching her take off her North Face jacket only to reveal she has more rolls than the Pillsbury Doughboy.  With a lot of restaurants, tons of bars (4 for every 1,000) and plenty of reasons to drink, starting with the cold, Chicago is a fantastic town to be single in.

Facts:

Went to Chicago for a quick convention. I had many leads thanks to Tinder activity, but ended up finding a great woman in a bar and spent some time with her.  Plenty of action in Chicago, and great bars to meet up at.

​#5:  Washington, D.C.

Washington DC

I didn’t want to believe this one, but a friend of mine lives there and I made a Summer visit that opened up my eyes to how much this often forgotten city has going on around it.

Facts:

There are 11.3% more women than men.  There are also many people making absurd laws which tend to make people up there want to drink constantly.

​#6:  Boston

Boston Tinder Market

One of my favorite towns for so many reasons just got better with the addition of the Tinder app.  This is the 8th largest market for Tinder.

Facts:

There are 2.62 bars for every 1,000 people, which is incredible.  You can get a drink just about anywhere in the city.  There are many single women waiting to find a guy to buy her some chowder, considering 40% of the population is single.

​#7:  Houston

Tinder in Houston

The seventh busiest market on Tinder, the only downfall here is that the city is spread out.  Unlike New York City, things can take a while to get to if you aren’t careful.

Facts:

Women from Texas talk sexy and are genuinely more genuine.  For this reason, I like Houston.

​#8:  Minneapolis

Tinder in Minneapolis

Very comparable to Chicago in many ways, this often forgotten town is an absolute hoot in the Summer.  The stats say there are 6 bars for every 1,000 people, but that doesn’t feel right because the addition of brew pubs and tap houses just doesn’t seem to stop.  Minneapolis has many popular bar areas, including the North Loop, and it has to be considered a top ten city for hook ups because of it’s corporate atmosphere which employs several hundred thousand young professionals.

Facts:

Minneapolis is the 16th busiest Tinder city.  It borders St. Paul, which is considered it’s “Twin City.”  Double trouble!

​#9:  Dallas

Dallas Tinder

They do everything bigger in Texas, right?  This is the 11th busiest city on Tinder.

Facts:

There are more women in Dallas than men.  Thank goodness, those $35,000 millionaires are the epitome of the word douchebag.

​#10:  Tampa

Tampa

Tampa, otherwise known locally as “Trampa,” thanks to it’s high population of dirty strip clubs, comes in at #10.  I always enjoy myself in Tampa, and often wonder why I don’t visit there more often.

Facts:  

35% of the population is single.  A large percent of the females in that number, are strippers.  I may have to think about ranking this higher.

Others I thought about adding….

Austin, Texas

One of my favorite towns because of the college atmosphere and number of young individuals.  If I was 5-10 years younger I’d probably have it in this list.  It’s never a bad thing to be in Austin.  Women in Austin love to drink, so you don’t really need an app to meet them. Just head to a bar and strike up a convo.

Las Vegas, Nevada

Vegas has a couple things going for it.  One, most people who live there are transplants from somewhere else and need friends.  This leads to them turning to apps and dating sites to meet people.  Second, there are TONS of strippers and women just looking to make it big.  Where there is desperation, there is hope.  Use my tinder guide to make sure you get lucky in Vegas.

If you aren’t having much luck with these most active Tinder cities, you may want to try a more aggressive app for hooking up.  View my list of sex apps here.

Secret Dating App

Resources Used:

https://www.thrillist.com/travel/nation/best-dating-cities-the-easiest-us-cities-for-casual-sex