Threesome Sex Advice

While I am not married, I do have friends who are. That said, I can safely say that there comes a time in every married person’s life when, yes, the sex gets actually boring. It’s a simple fact of life. You can’t spend years doing the same thing over and over again and expect it to stay fresh. It’s like ordering one more pizza and living off of the leftovers for the rest of your time on this planet. It’s just not a thing that’s going to work for anyone. That’s when you have to start thinking about ways to spice it up.

For some people, that may mean accepting some BDSM stuff into your bedroom life. For others, it means inviting a third person. A threesome can be one of the most fulfilling things you’ve ever experienced in your life. It can bring you closer together as a couple and as friends. This threeway fling can really be an amazing experience.

The whole experience can open your mind to a whole new world of possibilities that’s always been just out of your reach. All you have to do is make sure that it comes together as a positive experience. There’s no sense in doing something if it will only work to damage any of your relationships. Here are the best ways to make sure a threesome is a good thing for you today. Oh, I should also mention that this article is for both men and women. So, if you’re just a horny girl or guy looking for advice, then keep reading!

Simple Advice For Threesome Fun

Here’s everything you need to know about having a threesome. Yes, I’m talking about every aspect from start to finish and after. Here’s what you need to know…

Decide On The Sex

The very first thing you’re going to have to do is decide the sex of the other person in the threesome. It’s probably the most important aspect of the entire thing. You also have to ask yourself why this choice is being made.

Do you just want to feel like a woman taken by two men? Have you ever secretly wondered what it would feel like to be touched by another woman? Is he curious about men? Do you want to see him with another woman? These are the questions that need to be answered and the only way to do that is by talking.

Decide On The Third

Once you choose whether your threesome will be with another man or another woman, it’s time to choose the actual person. We’ll keep things simple here by just saying it’s with another woman. Everything applies to both sexes, though.

You have plenty of friends that you can invite into the bedroom, but who’s the best one? The chances are very high that there’s one of your friends that he has the hots for. It’s natural and it happens in every relationship. You can choose her or you can choose someone else. The choice you make will have a lasting impact, so don’t make it lightly.

If you choose the friend that he finds attractive, she’s going to really be enjoying himself. In fact, he might be enjoying himself too much for your comfort. You have to look past that. You’re doing all of this for each other and your relationship. He should be enjoying himself. That’s the whole point.

You can’t let yourself fall victim to jealousy. It has no place here at all. Or you could make sure you never feel it by choosing a friend he has no interest in. You know your tolerances better than anyone else in the world.

Don’t Make Him Do All The Work

Remember that this is about having fun. Once you’ve chosen your third and found yourselves in the bedroom, make sure you’re an active part of it. Don’t just rely on him to satisfy two women at the same time.

That’s the opposite of fun.

That’s nothing but a lot of pressure and a lot of work for him. You have to take part in it. Your friend does as well. Do something crazy with her. Share your man with her. Let her explore your body while he explores hers. That’s really what a threesome is all about. You never want to make it feel like a job for anyone involved.

You certainly don’t want to make your friend do all of the work, either. Maybe she’s had experience in a threesome before and maybe she hasn’t. Either way, it’s not her job to get the two of you off. Have sex with him and have sex with her. Let him have sex with her as well. That’s where all of the fun comes in.

Learn From Her

This is also the perfect opportunity to learn how to repair your sex life beyond this one single night. Pay attention to the way that she has sex. That’s very important. Seeing the way another person does it will show you things you might not have ever even considered.

You might even get a chance to see her do something to him that makes him moan as you’ve never heard before. It’s the perfect time to see a whole new perspective on how to have sex with your husband and you should take full advantage of it.

Fulfill His Fantasies

The middle of a threesome is no time to hold yourself back. There are things that’ she’s fantasized about seeing for his entire life. Two women making out and going down on each other right in front of him is one of those things. Two women sharing a blowjob is another.

It doesn’t matter if she’s never mentioned any of this to you before. It’s a fantasy that all men share. Just make it happen for him. This is a time of pleasure and fantasy fulfillment. Anything you refuse to do will haunt your relationship for the rest of your life.

Enjoy A Stronger Relationship

Once it’s all over, you can enjoy a much stronger relationship for the rest of your lives. You’ve just done something highly intimate and highly outside of the norm. You can enjoy the benefits of it for the rest of your married life.

Just don’t think of it as something you’ll never have to do again. Your sex life will get a boost, but this new way of having it should stay forever. Test your limits and try new things. It’s the best way to have a stronger marriage. At the end of the day, if you don’t want to test your limits, just give Ashley Madison a shot or Adult Friend Finder and play the third wheel and you’ll get your threesome one way or another. Thank me later and good luck!